Becoming a Leader…
Here’s my column in the last issue of Max Sports and Fitness Magazine!
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Becoming a Leader.
By Maria Kang
As I write this column my mother is in the hospital. After a kidney transplant late last year, she endured a heart attack in recovery and has been re-admitted twice due to internal bleeding. Unfortunately, it’s “normal” to see my mother enduring health issues. Most of my life she has suffered from diabetes, heart disease and kidney failure. She had her first minor stroke in her 30s and endured a series of small heart attacks in her early 40s. While it’s painful to watch your mother suffer, it is especially difficult when your mother is only 48 years old.
I want to say that she had a genetic disposition that led her to become so sick…or that she wasn’t provided enough time to undue her bad habits. But I can’t.
All of her health issues today could have been prevented in her past. Simple symptoms such as high blood sugar, rising blood pressure, increased weight gain and chest pain forewarned her of a finite future. Instead of recognizing her poor habits, she focused instead on living”in the moment”, most often without contemplation of their consequences.
My mother is the number one reason why I am so passionate about health and fitness today. She planted the desire within me to figure out the cause – and the solution…to our health-related issues today. I believe we can prevent diseases and live quality lives if we eat nutritious food, workout and ensure we are consuming enough vitamins and minerals.
While I feel there are many things that influence a person to behave better and build healthier habits, one of the biggest things I accredit someone’s fitness success (and most especially, their continued success) is their ability to internally lead themselves and externally lead others to live healthier lives.
Leading yourself.
The first person you need to lead in your fitness journey is YOU. It’s much harder than you think. After all, YOU are the reason why you haven’t accomplished your fitness resolutions in the past. You are the one who convinced yourself that you’re busy, tired, stressed, unmotivated or intimidated to take physical action on a daily basis. You are the one standing in your own way.
Leading yourself requires you to have “self talks” every day. However psychologically unstable that sounds, it is a necessary act that will assist you in providing daily positive thoughts. Instead of saying, “I’m tried”…you have to say, “I’m energetic!” Instead of saying, “I’m fat” you have to say, “I’m FIT!” I am a firm believe that anything you think internally will eventually manifest externally into the physical world. You have to truly believe what you want to become.
Leading others.
One of the most influential techniques you can use to make you adhere to a fitness program is becoming a LEADER of somebody…to anybody. When someone gives you positive recognition for being their motivation and inspiration, it’s almost impossible not to succeed. For our Franchisee’s in this issue, many of them are not only internally motivated to be in great shape, but they are also externally expected (by all of you) to be in shape. After all, they are the ambassadors of the Max Muscle product and representing fitness, health and wellness in their regions.
Some of you are parents and have children who look up to you. Other’s have friends who take blood pressure pills or have some extra girth they can do without. Whatever the case, there is always someone who is more need than yourself that you can become a role model to. Not only does that person help build personal accountability, but it allows you to give back in the “circle of life” in this teacher-student relationship.
Becoming a Leader.
New journeys begin when you decide you want to leave the place you are in right now. You are only able to confidently move forward if you have faith in what you foresee in your future. When you get there…when you’ve succeeded… those who desire to complete your same journey can benefit from the road you left in your tracks.




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